You need help, but NO ONE is there for you?

Do bear in mind that i am not trying to Xing Zai Le Huo, but trying to bring your attention to the Principles of sowing & reaping (again). :I

How can you say that no one is there to help out where you need help?

How can you say that no one really care about you?

How can you even be upset when the turnout wasnt the way you want it to be?

How can you, when...


- No effort was made to draw close to him in the 1st place?
- You didnt even really spend more time with them and i am not talking about quality time. I am just refering to basic effort to just spend time.
- The way you talk to your closer friends & ppl under you, doesnt even reflect well as a person with authority?

How can you?

There is simply no relationship bro. Or rather, i should say, this relationship is just of a "Hi & Bye" kind and it will not really birth forth closer bonds, becos no time & effort was spend with him / them.

You become envy or even at times sound jealous, but how can you?

A sacrifice was made, thats y, there is such a bond. A sacrifice of time, effort, money and energy were made bro.

So, how can you say that you need help, but not many were there.

I am sure if more efforts were made to build bonds and friendships, the turnout will surely be of a satisfactory one.

Becos.... you sow time into ppl's life, you will reap back time. Time when you needed help, ppl will sacrifice their time for you.

If you sow energy into this r/s, you will reap it back. When you are tired to move on, ppl will come by and give a word of encouragement (ie: source of energy & strength).

If you sow money in ppl's life, you will reap a HARVEST! :O And pls stop saying that you have not enough money. Bro, the more you scrimp, you will realise that you have lesser and lesser to spend! Pls be more generous lah.. pls lah....

I pray that you will somehow start to get your attitude right again. :)