Monday, January 9, 2012

What a way to start 2012! =)

I didnt quite end 2011 properly... meaning that things were in a mess weeks before 2011 ended. We were busy with Michela's room... all the painting and shifting tired us out... so much so that i didnt even do Christmas shopping! Then blink blink..... last day of 2011 liaoz... i remembered telling MK "wow, so fast, today is the last day of the yr!"

But never did i expect to start 2012 in such a good way... Pst Kong preached such a good message...abt Commiting oneself to a local church! I am sure, those that really listened, they will be integrated soon!

Then next was the meet ups and catch ups over a few groups of frens...

1) Ex-PSB gang
Kit was so nice to initiate the meet up and whats more... at her new house! She has such nice and cosy place to stay at... Good designs and choices of colours! William, Mel and even Jessie came! Excited and happy to see them... This grp of ex-colleagues really are one of the closest to me so far in my working life... Treasure them... and i am looking forward to the nex catch up soon at William's!! :p But the only 'inperfect' of that meet up was that we forgot to take a picture tog... booo... nvm nvm.. we shall rememeber to do it the next time. :)

2) Steamboat Dinner at Quentin & Linda's
We haven seen them for a good 6 months acty... and they are so kind to invite us to their house for steamboat fellowship! Specially cooked and boil the soup just for us! How nice of them... :) It was a good catch up in fact... We love them too and will be looking forward to the next meet up again, this time with Darren and Charlotte! :P

Our nice pic with them using my Instagram from ip4s... Really love the effects!




3) This isnt an intentional meet up... in fact it was after today's church service where we 'accidentally' saw each other... It started with Becky thanking me for all that was done for the cg and her.... Immediately, i teared... becos i was touched by her. But felt pretty embarressed that i acty cry so easily! ai yo.... Huixuan ah Huixuan.... :(

Then saw Mingming shortly after that.. 3 of us started chatting and they thank me for not giving up on the cg. Ming said that i totally won her over.. and Becky is so so much more opened to me as compared to the past... What can i say... I can only thank God that He soften their hearts and make them more open to me... Every relationship takes 2 hands to clap... they are willing to clap theirs tog with me... I thank God for them...

To Ming and Becky, lets keep growing in God together! Love you gals! :)

Once again, using my hp via Leme Cam! :)




4) Lastly, i just want to say that i am indeed really happy to have found a Pri Sch fren via FB! Not convenient to post photos and say name, but lets just call her A.

A and myself were close frens during pri sch days... During PSLE, she fared better then me and was naturally posted to Express stream. I fared marginal and so were given a chance to choose between Express or Normal Acad (NA). In the end, my parents felt that its better for me to choose NA as they dun want to stress me out.

As a result, A went to a marginal Sec sch while i get to go to a good sec sch but i do NA. After a while, we lost touched. Yrs later i heard she gave birth to a baby and became an unwed mother. That was when we were both in our teens yrs... I think during then, i came to know Jesus Christ.

Soooo many yrs have passed... acty she has always been on my mind... i have always wanted to find her... but for some reasons, i just cant seem to find her... not thru friendster and i didnt try Facebook yet... Until recently someone started our Pri Sch profile page then... i found her there! I was sooo happy! we added each other and got hold of her hp num... i am sooooooo looking forward to meeting up with her to catch up on things... She is now a divorcee and taking her daughter with her... Her daughter is alrdy in Sec school! Gosh... I wonder how much she had suffered with that man during her growing up yrs... and seriously, my heart goes out to her... as always..

After i found and added her... i was thnking and looking back abt both of our lives... In comparison, God always have a plan for everyone... and there must be reasons why things happened.

A


- Got into a marginal Sec Sch to do Express stream.


- Met a bad guy and became an unwed mum at (maybe) 15.


- Might have been thru a lot of sufferings as an unwed mum and a student too.


- Ends up in divorce and have to take care of daughter.



ME


- Chose NA for good reasons and 'accidentally' got into a good Sch.


- Went to church during teens and became Christian at 15.


- Growed up in church and trained in the ways of the Lord.


- Met my man in church, married and now with a kid.



Sometimes, really, sometimes we will never know what God has intended for each and everyone of us. All i know is that i want to reach out to her and introduce God to her, becos she has missed out on so much alrdy. I feel she deserved proper care, love and concern.. Only God can give...

So i also thnk God that i found my long lost old time fren! :)

And, yup yup... this is how i started 2012... In a pretty good way i guess.. frenships reconciled and strengthened... Lost fren found back... God i thank You... I really do...

Heeeee... before i go... just wanna post a photo of me using Instagram via ip4s... I TOLD you i love the effects!


**Chaos!**

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