The Comparison :I

You busier or I busier? Does it matters? You got more work to do or I got more work to do? Why must you compare? Already we are helping you and yet you are not happy because its not settled yet and seems to be very messy. Why? Be a bit more thankful please. Cant we just help each other out??

Sadz… (shake head)

WORK!! :I

BUSY! BUSY!

Soooo many things to do.. When can I finish all my work?? But then again, if work can be finished, its not call WORK. Muahha..

So, stop complaining and get back to WORK! :P

V-day (Pt 2)

14th Feb : Hubby and I specially set aside this day.. but not for ourselves.. Its to spend Vday with our common group of friends.. They know who they are lah.. haha..

We went Timbre that night. Arrived at near 8pm.. Ordered some food.. Interestingly, the food that I ordered - Fish & Chips, was prepared and done up 'lovingly'! haha.. Cos they used chilli sauce to write "Love U" and the breaded fish is a heart-shape one! At 1st i dunno, until the food arrived then we all realised they put in a lot of effort leh.. haha..

Halfway thru...... came 2 Special VIP.. haha.. Alex and Howard... Somehow they were there. So we got them to joined us too..

It was Jk's bday celebration too.. keke.. We even got the band to sing him a bday song!.. It was good BUT... only that the timing of presenting cake and song.. er.. a bit not tally leh.. haha.. maybe cos the band didnt know we got a cake for him bah.. well, nvm it was good too.. think this yr's bday celebration much better than last yr's one.. hee...

Ping got him a Tee from Buffalo.. Hmm the T shirt is very him leh.. hee.. Hope he likes it la.. keke..

Then, both Cheryl and Sheryl came too.. we all ordered sides and more drinks too.. and just chatted the night away.. keke..

I must say that even without a love companion, you can still have a good vday celebration.. keke..BUT.. its still not good to be alone la.. so for those out there not attached, quickly go find one! Yes, Cheryl... talking abt YOU... muhahhaha... (just kidding lah.. )

Anyhow, i think we all have enjoyed that night.. Thanks guys and gals!! :)

Happy V-Day....

V-day (Pics)

V-Day (Pt 1)

This year's Vday is a bit diff... Me and hubby decided to celebrate it earlier: 13th Feb. Food is cheaper and not so crowded. We went Brewerks (dunno if correct spelling) at Clarke Quay.. While having his dinner, I just discreetly present the present in front of him. He was surprised (accodingly to him). Got him his 1st Christian Audiger Tee. He likes it! BUT... my ex colleague forgot to take out price tag!!! ahhh... So pai seh that he found out how much.. haha.. Thanks ah Kevin.. :)Buy from you still forget take out price tag.. haha..

The food was good, but BIG portion.. We wanted to order sides after the main, but by the time we finished the main, we only feel like walking ard as we were too full! haha...

It was a very mini and normal kind of Vday celebration,BUT it was still good la.. guess we enjoyed each other's company even tho there is NO flowers.. haha..

Thank you Dear.... :(I)

Have I changed?

Have I changed? I used to be really noisy, full of words, and actions. Very energetic. But now doesn’t seem to be the case. I have become quieter, talk less, action also much lesser…
Some said I have matured, some said my character has changed because I am married. Whatever it is, to tell the truth, I am a bit scared of myself. I am worried for myself too… Its like I will ask “What exactly has happened to me??” Well, I don’t know.. Ha..

Maybe even friendship has changed too. We have gone thru so much as friends, as a zone, as leaders, etc… We came out of these storms still standing strong. And I thought we will be friends forever… But it doesn’t seem to be the case.. Have you changed or have I changed? Am I not impt (like in the past) to you anymore? Why am I feeling so left out by you? I may look stable and happy, but every human being needs care and concern from their loved ones. I don’t feel that I am getting enough of that from you. :I

The small little sms-es I used to get from you seem to die away already. Instead, it is now for other friends. The small gifts you gave also have seemed to be lesser and lesser… not the gifts I am after (of course), but this shows the level of imptance I am to you now.

Sad? Yes, I am. Cry? Yup, cried. Affected? Very.. Because you mean so much in my life.

So, have I changed, or…. ??

Can someone proved to me that I AM WRONG?

Cabbing (Part 3 - Final Episode...)

In case some of you are wondering….

Yup, I took CAB to work today. :I

(Stop laughing JK & Fangy!)

Argh….

Cabbing (Part 2)

Yes!..Finally, no cab today! Haha…

Cabbing (Part 1)

Yes, I took cab to work today (again)… :(

Source of my mini heart-attack..

Taking taxi nowadays can be a very painful experience. It used to be when you travel from JW to Tiong Bahru area, only cost abt $12 - $15.. Now.. ai yo... at least $18 bucks lor.. plus this charge and that charge... by the time you pay, the fare can amount to anywhere near $20 – $22bucks! Kill me lah.. so ex.. each time i pay, its like mini heart attack man.. haha..

The truth is ever since the fare shot up like no one’s business, i seldom take cab to work liao.. Its only these 2 days.. I am quite tired.. keep oversleeping.. so no choice but to take cab.. Sigh... to the best of my ability, I want to decrease tremendously the num of times i take cab to work liao.. Got money also not like dat spend one ma...

I rather save that money for other stuf.. like BF/LV bag/POSB account, etc...

Say so much, se-ka-li, i end up taking cab again! Ha!

fragility of life...

These few days i have been thinking about a lot of things. The fragility of life, process of human life, etc... Every human will need to go thru birth, sickness and death.. Is life JUST like this? Or there are more to it.

I believe there are more.. Much more to just going thru a normal life.. living til abt 70, 80 or even 90 yrs of age before we die.. I believe God has a plan for each and everyone of us.. i wanna leave my life to the fullest...

The Wong Family

I must say that this family is kinda cute.. haha In the midst of the funeral wake and CNY season, while others gather together to have reunion dinner, we also had ours. Just that the location is in the wake area. Haha.. Kinda funny la.. some relatives were joking saying that we can still have reunion dinner ma.. cos all the relatives all at the wake le.. so its kinda consider Reunion liao.. hmm.. like that also can..

Well, in cny you get to eat good food and goodies like ba gua, gua zi, soft drinks, etc.. we also have all these in the wake! haha.. lol..

Playing mahjong during cny ? we also have... cos during cny, nobody will come to the wake ma.. so everyone very bored.. in the end, they open table to play mahjong! haha quite cute la.. cos the aunties and uncles really 'ku zhong zuo le' ... lol... :) Also good la, at least can distract them a bit bit, if not keep thinking abt the loss of their mother or grandma is emotionally tiring one.. hee.. at least you see them smile and laugh a bitbit during the mahjong session.. keke..

Well, life is really like that one la.. we go thru ups, but we also experience our downs..

Anyway, here's wishing you a Happy New Year, Wan Shi Ru Yi, Xin Xiang Shi Cheng!!! Hahah.. Gong Xi, Gong Xi! :)

The 3 Losses

1st Loss : Loss of concentration. Well, after having to stay up for 2 consecutuve nights til morning then you go back to 'bee' for a while.. of course will lose that normal level of concentration la.. Hubby cant concetrate much, neither can I. Just know that its CNY. Seeing everyone dressing up and going to 'bai nian' but yet the Wong family cant.. this kind of feeling is really very 'weird' haha.. After all its my 1st time not going to bai nian cos we are in the mdist of a funeral wake. haha.. So, we kinda loss the concentration level liao.. hmm.. hopefully can sleep back after cremation on Sat before we 'chiong' again for work on Monday. wow, like no rest at all.. haha.. No choice la..

2nd Loss: Handphone loss.. Yes Hubby lost his mobile phone hours ago when we went back in a cab after shou-ing our 2 ye.. Like what i said earlier on.. no concentration level.. also plus very tired.. no wonder he didnt notice much abt his mobile phone. Cant blame him.. :I But its kinda quite bad for us.. Not only his grandma passed away 2 days before CNY, we are also there to shou ye for 2 nights.. not a lot but its definitely not easy cos its freezing in the middle of the nigth.. (we almost freeze to death for 2 nights! haha thank God we are still alive! :P) .. so on top of these, no sleep, no grandma, no new year celebrations.. in the end, no more phone. :( Why?? Why like that? By the time we realised, its 7am in the morning and we suppose to get ready to sleep but cant sleep.. we kept quiet for quite sometime.. i didnt know what to say.. just zip up my mouth.. cos i know its not the correct time to say even anything then. But he was still ok.. strong i must say... after a while, he calm himself down and we went to sleep. Confirm we know he will not get back the phone liao.. few hrs later when i woke up, he came over to kiss me and he was kinda smiling again... I asked him abt the phone and he said " no more le, never mind la.." i thought to myself... "wow, he is really sth man! after all these, he can still smile and stay positive.. if its me.. i would have 'fa pi qi' liao.. haha..

3rd Loss: Loss of interest to even make up and go out during this festive season.. Tell you a secret.. after 2 tough nights, we decided to go out and have some fun with our friends.. but hor, just the tot of seeing everyone nicely dressed up to go out, make me loss interest to go out.. haha.. Cos in moment like this, how to have the mood to still dress up and put make up and go out?? BUT, we are deprive( i think).. so, we will still go out and have some fun bah.. hehe.. to get some CNY atmposphere too.. hee..

Anyway, after all these that had happned in such short time, I STILL know that God is in control. There must be a reason for all these that had happned. No blaming on God, no blaming on ourselves, but remain thankful to Him in the middle of all these.

God I love You... :P

Bidding farewell to Mdm Ho Ah Moi...

I am not close with her, but has seen her adorable side. She maybe old, but she truly is fortunate to live a ripe old age.

With almost all her sons & daughters, grandchildren and even great-grandchildren by her side before she go is something to be comforted about. Not many can live til her age, but yet she managed to do it. :)

Thank God she is saved, so even with all the other kind of funeral, i still believe that He holds a special place in her heart.

Ah-ma, i will always remember you in my heart. Farewell. :)

(1918 - 2008)

this gal SHINES! :P

Well, like what i wrote in my blog profile.. My name is Shine and the reason why i got this name is simple... To remind myself to always Shine for Jesus! :)

I am a pretty positive person. I am also very cheerful. To me, to be able to breathe again every morning is a blessing and I really appreciate it!

I love God and i know He loves me. Has created me beautiful in His eyes. Thank you Abba... :)

Just THIS simple.